I think it's totally unromantic, lazy and proves he doesn't know me well enough to choose something I like.Would you be upset if your boyfriend of 3 years gave you a gift voucher for your birthday?
lol i know exactly how you feel... its happened to me three times now... on two christmas's and on my 20th bday...
do what i did... if he wants to be lazy and not pick something personally, make him accompany you as you spend that voucher... lol hours and hours of picking just the right thing will make him realise he should pick something more unforgettable.
good luck!Would you be upset if your boyfriend of 3 years gave you a gift voucher for your birthday?
Now's the time for good communication. Tell him you're disappointed. If he know he'll make it up to you.
Nope, it just shows you don't do enough things together. If you did, you would say something and he would buy it. If you expect your boyfriend to read your mind, you are going to have a very difficult life. Don't get caught in that bad expectations game.
So your birthday is right around Valentine's day? What did he do for Valentine's day? You might have to bring your expectations down a notch, love.
I think you'll be ok. He just might need a quick relationship whack to the head to get him going again. Communicate but look at it from his side of things too. Good luck.
I say be easy in the guy. In 3 years, he has probably had many occasions to give you gifts, and guys can run out of creativity fast. The fact that he got you anything is commendable. Perhaps you can put a suggestion list of romantic gifts/gestures inside of a greeting card for him as a guideline (I did this for my husband). Sometimes, they just honestly don't know what to give, but it doesn't mean the love isn't there.
Well i wouldnt focus too much on the fact it was gift voucher, most guys are clueless as to what to give to a woman. Maybe you should make a suggestion as to what you would like next time? He proberly couldnt work out what to give you, so instead of getting you a dumb present he thought you wouldnt like he gave you a voucher so he wouldnt stuff up!!
Relax!!
well
its not like that - if he gets you anything which sometime you said that i would like to buy this or i want to have this and that - then what is special about it - he is just fullfilling your wish - it makes you happy but did you think sometime the thing you like is truely liked by him????
if both of you like it then it is romantic other wise its of no use hun .
do u know him well -- his likes and dislikes ????
he was nervous and dont want to make any mistakes by getting you something which you like but no use to you .
atleast by giving you vouchers he showed he cares for you for real - so that you can get what exactly you want -
well if you truely truely love him buy him something with those vouchers (stop being selfish here) this makes him feel he has someone who truely cares and loves him - someone who is not selfish someone he can spend rest of his life with .lol i consider this as romantic
what do u think
its not about vouchers and gifts -- the whole thing is thought he has for you - it has to be real -
Next time he calls you, hang up. And then you call him the next second and hang up again.
That is totally SHT. he does not care about you.
my advice, end the relationship and go with someone who would pay attention to you.
It is pretty unromantic but sometimes a gift voucher can be a good thing. It's not that bad (I know someone who once got a toothbrush holder for Valentine's Day). Some people just don't do well with gift-giving.
i prefer giftcards myself but that's because i am picky also. It all depends on what you want, maybe you should tell him what you want next time. Guys can't read your mind.
I prefer gift vouchers because I am quite fussy about the things I like. If its the wrong brand, the wrong color or whatever I wont like it.
don't worry sweetie, my bf didn't organize anything for my valentines day, had a chinese takeaway...how romantic
Yeah i wud be disapointed, but alot of guys are lazy so thers nothing 2 worry about.
oh come on man, it probably took him HOURS AND HOURS to think what do you actually need
... and then finally he gets a coupon
give the dude a break!!!
No, its not about what he got you anyway.. the thought that he tried to give you something you wanted.
why should the gift matter?
I agree with you but it doesn't mean he doesn't think a lot of you though, but yes lazy!
I'm sure he cares about you, he's just lazy, last-minute kind of guy.
lol thats a joke but it is lazy lol
I agree with A. It IS unromantic and lazy but he gave you something so that shows he cares. Plus... how much was it?
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